Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Tips to Increase Confidence

One thing I see (or hear of) a lot of in our training classes are owners over emphasising "It's OK' to their pet when they are afraid of something. All you do with that is tell them that, in fact, it is NOT ok and it makes them even more afraid. Our pets look to us for safety and comfort when they meet something that they are fearful of. Telling them it's Ok when it isn't, is a good way to teach your pet not to trust your judgement. Here are some simple *rules* in helping your pet to become more confident. 

NEVER tell dog it is OK when it is not


Emphasis on appropriate praise for appropriate behavior

PATIENCE, CONSISTENCY

Remove emotion, especially disappointment or anger!

Favorite treat and/or toy reserved for stressful times ONLY

"Strangers" should have special treats (they are "treat dispensers")

Obedience commands work to get dog thinking rather than reacting

Normal, matter of fact tones of voice conveys confidence

Teach a "watch me" command – watching you will keep your dog safe

Exposures to new things should be carefully planned, timed & supervised

ON LEASH when challenging situations happen

Backsliding is expected and prepared for

Teach thinking games at home: names of family, toys, places, objects...

Prevent hiding & cowering away from fearful things

Use a word or phrase in place of "It's OK" ("Oh, you're being SILLY!"). Use your matter of fact tone of voice to cue the dog to something OTHER than the fearful object or situation ("sit", "watch me", etc)

"Let's say hi" is a good phrase to cue your dog to interacting with strangers, and have plenty of tasty treats & jolly praise handy!

"Look" is good for introductions to potentially fearful objects, along with a jolly, confident attitude

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